Building your self-confidence and overcoming low self-esteem is a question of changing your approach to life and most especially changing your thoughts about yourself. Your insecurities have a way of finding their way into your facial expression and your general composure which can be seen by all and this attribute has a way of attracting those whose intents are to prey on you as a matter of fact, it makes things worse for its carrier because nobody tends to take an unconfident person seriously. It is important to mention that the world is not going to treat or have pity on you because you are unsecured rather the world laugh at your inability to be yourself, you can take control early or once more by pressing till you get your spark back.

Insecurities are not built in a day, they are not reflex actions which you just happened to do, they are as a result of long negative thoughts before they became a way of life and a means through which we express ourselves. As I said earlier, our thoughts have a big deal of control of what we manifest in the physical, this is why the bible said in Proverbs 23:7 "As someone thinks within himself, so he is." This is the bible simply saying your flesh expresses your thoughts.  Our thoughts are also responsible for the choices we make either good or bad and one who lives the life of insecurity is most likely to make wrong choices. One who lives in insecurities greatest aspirations is to be accepted or approved by others so when making choices they tend to go with the options that are likely to impress others in other to win them over or make them seen as important.