HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE 4th AND 5th CHAPTER OF THE GIRLS BEST BUDDIES.


Hello everyone, happy new week to Y'all,  I will quickly like to mention that you are such a blessing and a dream come true, you are something I've always dreamt about and I'm glad that I have faithful and unconditional followers, people who are always looking out for me, people who are  always happy about my success stories. I wish everyone well in whatever you do. In today's blog I will be sharing  with you highlights from  the 4th and 5th chapter of The Girls Best Buddies but before I go into that, I would like to answer some questions I saw coming in over and over even if I have done an FAQ, I think I owe it to some people to answer this questions and one of the major questions that came in last week was people wanting to know if they can get the book online. YES! You can get this book online as selling online is the major way through which I plan is selling my book, both the paperback and the eBook version.  I would also be giving out free copies of this book but it's going to be in an eBook version to bloggers and people were interested in doing a review. I'm also open to an interview which is by the way because this week I'll be coming up with a post on how you can get a copy of this book for review.  Now I have this off the way, I am glad to mention to you that we are halfway to the end of this series and close to launch.


The 4th chapter of The Girls  Best  Buddies is titled Relationship Tag and I felt like this would be one of those things young girls are always interested in learning about and I had no problems dissecting everything that a relationship is and is not. For teens when the word “Relationship” is mentioned, they start having all kinds of thoughts going through their head, which I didn't judge them for, I went ahead to encourage them to look outside their familiar knowledge of relationship in other to make the most out of life. Here are some things I had to say.

The word relationship is far beyond emotional or physical intimacy and this is why I will be opening your eyes to the beauty of being in a genuine relationship,  our relationship goals consists of things we want our relationship to be like and as young people we all want the kind of fairy tale relationships, the kind we see on TV which is very attainable but you have to consciously play some certain roles in other to be impactful in your relationship with others.
There are three stages and in it consist of three categories of people that you have to consciously and willingly go into a relationship with before building a fairy tale relationship experience in your head, it is also very important to know that a relationship shouldn't be based on what you can get out of it but rather it should be more of what you can invest into it and also your investment into a human relationship should never be expectant of a reward because most times humans act up and  in some cases we don't get what we were expecting which turns out to be heart-breaking. Below with a diagram, I will be sharing with you three stages and its occupants that you have to go into a relationship with before getting caught up in your feelings.

The fifth chapter of this book is titled Love- (How to tell you are loved by someone). Based on my understanding of the definition of Love according to the Bible in the book of  1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hope, always perseveres”. I was able to tap them out of the well of lust. I also explained something they should be more concerned about before loving up on someone. I also succeeded in helping them understand that love is not blind as many claims. Here are highlights

The pool of “Love Is Blind” is so full that the worlds rescue team are finding it impossible to rescue the victims. Victims are so lost to the point of losing their hearing ability. People who claim to be in love turns their back to every other thing and clinch to the love they feel will never end. It is also very easy to find Abuse in the pool of “Love Is Blind”. The abused in this case sweeps the dirt that comes with this relationship under the bed of “Love Is Blind”. Many go as far as making statements like " if he leaves me I die, I can't live without him, I can never get over him". Friends, the reality is that such person is actually “Blind” not by love but by “Ignorance”.
This problem majorly begins by not defining your relationship as the definition of a relationship is the beginning of a likely successful relationship. I call defining your relationship the board meeting before the relationship.

This and more are loaded in The Girls Best Buddies, I will be coming to you soon with ways you can be a part of this movement.

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17 comments

  1. I always look froward to see which book you up your sleeve to share.

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  2. I needed a good book to read, thanks for the suggestion.!

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  3. I love your highlights. The party where you said
    "know that a relationship shouldn't be based on what you can get out of it but rather it should be more of what you can invest into it"
    Really speaks to me. I've had relationships in the past that seemed they they were only looking for what I could give them rather than just being genuine friends.

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  4. The book The Girls Best Buddies looks really nice and I just added to my reading list. Like the way the idea of relationships has been explained!

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  5. I read the previous 2 chapters you shared and I knew for certain this book will be a great guide for young girls and women in general. There's so much wisdom in this line ' it is also very important to know that a relationship shouldn't be based on what you can get out of it but rather it should be more of what you can invest into it'
    Married for 7 years now and these words couldn't be more true. I'd be very happy to review this book if given the opportunity :) I shall definitely be sharing the your next post of how to get this book, just tag me xxx

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  6. This looks like it's shaping up to be an awesome book for young girls.Best of luck on your journey to publication.

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  7. Nice, it's like I'm reading an online summary of books. Can't wait for Anna Karenina to be highlighted per chapter.

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  8. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 “ is my favorite bible verse! I am looking forward to see your recommend books I love reading books <3

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  9. Wow. ... ... You've got ebook version..... Cool

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  10. It seems this book is great. I love reading various highlights directly on your blog. Thanks for your work!

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  11. Very nice story I think I need to buy this book. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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  12. Thanks so much for sharing your journey. Happy to see how all the plans for the book are coming together nicely. <3

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  13. Oh wow, I love this! Pretty awesome blog. I love reading so much and this is one good read.

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  14. This is so nice. Keep up the good work and continue to share your thoughts.

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  15. ....the board-meeting before the relationship.....hehe! Very intriguing, Adaeze.

    Thanks sweetness, for sharing.

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  16. IT seems a really good book:) I like it. Looking forward your next chapter!

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  17. Sounds like this book has a lot about relationships and stuff. Thanks for the review.

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